Oxytocin decreases females stress levels and it lowers testosterone in males which causes them to experience higher stress levels.
So when you’re exploring something new, be patient. Due to this imbalance, too much bonding too soon can cause a man to feel slightly uncomfortable, as he adjusts to this new setting.
When a male withdraws, his testosterone raises so he feels more balanced and is then likely to return happier than before.
Whereas women tend to pull away when hurt or angry - possibly because we’re not receiving the attention. We're lacking oxytocin!!
This causes disconnection. Yet with awareness, we can overcome and be more successful in our relationships.